The Boyfriend Destroyer

What If She Says: "What do I say if she tells me she has a boyfriend?" The fact is, most attractive women have a boyfriend most of the time.  If men are like spiders trying to catch as many women into their web as they can, women are like swinging tree-monkeys, swinging from boyfriend to boyfriend but never letting go of the first without having a second lined up to grab onto. Some women keep "extra" guys as friends, stringing them along, holding them in the friendship zone, just in case they are ever needed. So you can't just ignore women with boyfriends or you'll severely limit your options. 

Case in point: I went to a convention a few years back, that incidentially was in french. See...I screwed up and went to the wrong location, and at that point, I wasn't going to leave, especially after seeing all the dick rising eye candy scattered all about! And I begin to realize the vast territory thats right within my midst, and is forbidden forever because I don't speak french. Same thing can be said about Spanish, Russian, Chinese etc. The point is, guys, you want to INCREASE your options, not DECREASE them. The fact that she MIGHT have a boyfriend dosen't negate the fact that she might be "looking" - looking to FEEL loved, looking to feel special, looking for more stimulation, looking for more challenge, looking for more fun, looking to cheat :), looking to see if there are better options out there. So what you want to do is to figure out ways in which to overcome that objection by making her see that YOU are the better option (even temporarily). 

The Boyfriend Destroyer: One technique to use is a "boyfriend destroyer". A boyfriend destroyer is especially effective if her boyfriend is not meeting her core values and she's looking to leave him anyway and just needs an extra nudge out. 

Here is the technique step by step. First you want to ask her about her boyfriend. She most likely will find this strange, however, you want to use the conversation to extract as much needed information as possible about him, and about the relationship. Things, like how often does he take her out, does he say he loves her, how does she REALLY feel about him (she will only tell you this if youre in rapport), is there anything she really want that it would be nice if he would do or give to her, etc etc.
Now if she start talking bad about him, be careful not to join in, but try to be understanding, saying "yes I know what you mean", "yes some guys are like" that and the like. If you're up to it you can even use a bit of reverse phycology and say something like "He probably didnt know", "He might love you still" etc etc. That will get her to be more persistent, and even get her in the mood of wanting to prove to you how bad this guy is. 

The second thing you want to do after extracting this information about what she dosen't want, you must now elicit her values, get to know the things she really want, the things she really desires, the things she dreams of, whats important to her, find out how she was as a little girl, and all the fairy tale "pie in the sky" BS that women talk about. Make her dream in her minds eye by reflecting on all the things she wanted to be as a little girl. Then when she comes back down to reality, YOU will be the one there to fullfill those dreams :) 

Refraiming: To conquer her mind, you will have to refraim her. Its alot easier to now talk together about the perfect guy, using her trance words elicited earlier, to plug your sentences, all the while using all the techniques such as kino, mirrowing, eye-accessing cues, humor, patterns. For instance, last month I met a cute black-haired beauty by the pool and she was telling me how she had just broken up with her boyfriend and how he was such a jerk.  She went on about him for ten minutes straight. She was getting more and more worked up it. Besides getting bored, I didn't want any of this negativity attached to me. So I told her: Just imagine your ex-boyfriend three inches tall, like this, standing right on the table in front of you. Now I want you to take your hand and smash him and crumple him up in your hands. 

She immediately squashed her invisible ex against the table and crumpled him up before I could finish! Then I told her "THROW him into the pool where he will disappear! Splash! Gone!
She threw him in and after that never said one more word about him - only that I was intelligent and sweet and incredible and... well you get the idea. 

But some women LIKE their boyfriends and there's little you can do to neutralize or destroy him in her mind. In that case you have to take a completely different approach.  (The following conversation is simplified for clarity)
One girl I met at a party casually mentioned her boyfriend in conversation.  I said to her, "You know, I'm really curious about something... about your boyfriend, what about him first attracted you?
She started telling me what it was about her boyfriend that first attracted her.  She said, "Well I wasn't attracted to him AT FIRST, but it was just the way he... and the way he... and..." This is important, because she's giving you step-by-step instructions on EXACTLY how to seduce her!   

I then asked her, "When you first fell in love with this person what exactly did you feel? 

No matter what she says, she'll lightly go into that state of first falling in love as she accesses it in her mind - with YOU causing the good feeling in her. 

I asked her, "Where did that feeling start? 

She told me in her chest (they'll usually say in their throat or stomach). 

Then I asked her, "From your chest, where did it go it next? 

She told me it went down to her tummy. 

I said, "Now let me get this straight... I was actually talking to a friend of mine last week and with her when she feels she's attracted to a person she said it starts in her throat, but for you it starts here in your chest... 

I touched her chest.  "And then down to your tummy right," I said tracing my finger down to her naval. 

I've now just elicited HER particular process of becoming attracted and then LED her through it by tracing the path of that feeling with my finger (and anchored that incredible feeling to me finger as I touched her).  In effect, I created the experience of "becoming attracted" for her as I traced the feeling with my finger along her skin - all with the excuse of, "Now let me see if I got what you said straight. 

I finished up with "It's kind of weird that way... how you just become attracted to someone like that... as if it just explodes inside of you when it hits your tummy... but things like that can just happen and in my opinion you should never try to fight something like that." 

As a final note, you MUST have some level of rapport when you pull a move like this.  The more rapport you have with her, the better she'll respond and more powerful the effect will be.